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Chapter 142 Becoming the cornerstone of resolving conflicts
Guo Haoran held a piece of paper in his hand and kept crumpling it.
Seeing that he didn't say anything, Li Wanqian continued.
"Whatever doubts you have, you can put them straight like this."
After saying that, he turned his head and looked at Guo Haoran steadily.
“Or your concerns or questions will always exist and continue to arise.
Because this is a contradiction in the way people get along with each other.
It is very difficult to find someone in this world who is 100% compatible with you.
The more you get along with each other, the more conflicts you will have, and these will not be erased by time.
Time will only allow a lot of communication to settle down and lay a better foundation for the next conflict to arise.
No bigger conflict will break out.”
Du Haitao's voice came out of the live broadcast screen.
“That’s very well said.”
Li Wanqian in the picture continued.
“The fluctuation and tolerance of emotions are mutually generated by both parties.
I told you before that I am a person who is very sensitive to other people's emotional changes. So even though I usually appear to be very carefree, I am actually very sensitive.
In some cases, it may take me some time or some external force to get back on track.
Let me tell you this, the reason why I can sit here and talk to you so much.
On the one hand, it’s because of my ability to regulate my emotions, and on the other hand, it’s because Zhao Yu enlightened me last night.”
When Guo Haoran heard this, he looked at Li Wanqian in disbelief.
The look in his eyes seemed to say:
"Zhao Yu enlightened you? I really didn't expect this."
At this time, Brother Long's voice came out of the live broadcast screen.
"Hey, what does Haoran mean by that look? Does he not believe that my brother Yu is a psychological counselor?"
The laughter of the heart-throb detectives could be heard from the live broadcast screen.
Teacher You Jianing's voice also came out of the screen.
"Wanwan is a girl who is really quite sober. She is really amazing."
Guo Haoran in the picture suddenly said sorry.
"I'm sorry, maybe it's because we didn't talk about this topic in depth or something.
I feel like I need to get to know you better.”
Li Wanqian's face remained calm when she heard what Guo Haoran said.
"My ideal model is that both parties can seriously understand each other's preferences.
Do you want to know what kind of music the other person likes to listen to, what kind of movies he likes to watch, what he likes to eat, or what he likes to do when he has free time?
After all, the two people are completely out of step with each other, and it is difficult for them to change in a short period of time, because understanding these two words requires time to accumulate.
Can you understand this?"
While Wanwan was speaking, Guo Haoran was listening attentively, and nodded seriously after Wanwan finished speaking.
This was Brother Xuan's voice of praise coming from the live broadcast screen.
"Wanwan is a really good person."
Brother Long also followed suit and praised.
"Yes, what a good girl."
Guo Haoran in the picture then stretched out his hand and gestured.
“I think what you just said is very right.
The cabin is pure, but I think what’s more important is that the end here doesn’t mean the real end, but just a beginning.”
When Li Wanqian heard what Guo Haoran said, and looked at his series of performances today, she could tell that Guo Haoran must have had a big change in his heart.
Otherwise, I wouldn't have taken the initiative to talk to her so much today and talk to her about the conflicts in my own life.
Li Wanqian in the picture pursed her lips, looked at Guo Haoran and nodded.
"That's fine, let's adjourn the meeting."
The live camera returns to the Heart-beating Detective live broadcast site.
Wu Xin looked at everyone and said.
"Guo Haoran felt that the core conflict between him and Li Wanqian was that he had never been abroad.
What kind of mental state does he have when he has such an idea? Teacher You Jianing.
Teacher You Jianing looked at everyone and explained.
"His understanding of love may still be a little shallow. From their conversation just now, everyone can hear that his understanding of love is definitely not as good as Li Wanqian's.
What we have experienced are things of the past, so the two of us will have to create more experiences in the future. Sooner or later, all the topics of past experiences will be exhausted.
So I think the most important thing for two people to be together is whether their values are compatible, whether they can satisfy each other's needs, and whether their personalities are compatible.
I say all this because I think shared experiences are not the most important thing, because experiences can be created together. For details, please see Tulip CP. "
Everyone smiled and nodded in agreement.
Brother Long burst into laughter at this time.
"I never thought that my brother Yu could become a model of the hut."
After everyone joked for a while, Brother Xuan looked at everyone seriously and said.
"Actually, I have a say in what Teacher You Jianing just said.
Because I grew up in a foreign country, and now I came to China and married a Chinese wife.
Cultures, countries and many ways of thinking are very different, but we share a common language and common values.”
After listening to Brother Xuan's words, everyone nodded in agreement.
Du Haitao concluded.
“Shared experiences are not our common language; shared values are our common language.
This matter is very important, so I think the most important thing is how Haoran should face it and how he should express it in his future life.
This matter is very important. It doesn’t matter if you haven’t thought it through or explained it clearly before, but every step and every decision that follows is important.”
After talking about Guo Haoran, the Heart-beating Detectives began to praise Li Wanqian.
They said she was really mature, sunny, had positive values, and had a lot of ideas about her love life.
After everyone finished speaking, Brother Long raised the pen in his hand and said.
"In fact, I think Wanwan just said something that can be included in our collection of treasures."
As soon as Brother Long said this, Teacher You Jianing summarized it and spoke it out.
“Time will lead to more communication, which will become the cornerstone for resolving conflicts next time.”
After hearing this, everyone exclaimed in admiration again.
The detectives discuss...
The live broadcast returns to the cabin.
Guo Haoran and Li Wanqian were sitting in the living room chatting, and the unnatural look on their faces had disappeared.
It seems to be slowly moving in a good direction.
At this time, the director turned the live camera to the door.
Xue Zheyang opened the door and walked in.
He greeted the two people in the living room and walked into the kitchen together.
Brother Long’s voice came out of the live broadcast screen again.
“Look, everyone in the hut is working so hard.
The two of them dated and spent every day together.
Alas, this is the difference between people. "
As Brother Long was speaking, the director turned the live camera to the door of the cabin.
Zhao Yu and Rou Rou got out of the taxi, each holding packed vegetables in their hands.
The two of them walked into the cabin, laughing and chatting...